Here's a quick example of what's going on here...
The guy who wants to change the 'standard' works for a contractor and is proposing this change under the recommendation from an engineer who also works for that contractor. Apparently, this engineer got all confused when he saw a demo version of one of our P&ID's. This P&ID also had an abandoned line on it and 'back in the day'
(which was a Wednesday, btw) they decided to use the same (or similar) hatch style to show that something was abandoned out in the field.
Personally, having done work for a couple dozen clients in my 13 years in this field, I've never seen any other convention used to show demolition and see no reason to change. Especially since we're talking about maybe a dozen or so drawings that have abandoned pipes, etc. I would rather see the DOT2 linetype used to show abandoned, but really... it shouldn't be an issue, as everything being marked for demo is in a cloud, anyway.
Mountain from a molehill...