Artisan
since you need an xref refresher, try a simple test drawing. Xref's are very simple to use, plus you have full control over any layer etc.
In short for a particular job you may work on select a common datum point to use for the whole job. 0,0,0 is the easiest and straight forward to use. (easy to remember) Draw up a standard grid line drawing. save it. Now start a new drawing. eg: Level 1. use the xref command and attach or overlay (overlay is better, but depends on required use) select the grid line drawing you just created, inserted at co-ordinate 0,0,0
Simple as that. Now you can begin drawing up your level 1 floor plan using the gridline drawing as the basis.
Now you can then do the same for level 2. xref the Level 1 drawing into newly created Level 2. etc. etc.
xref's can be unloaded if you don't need to see them in your drawing and layers can also be controlled within your viewports to get the visual you require.
Read up on xrefing in the help file also, as this will explain the differences between attach & overlay.
I would certainly advise you use xrefing, even more so as you mentioned other cad user is not very experienced, They will most likely mix layers on your drawing for each level. Making a giant bowl of spagetti, for you to sort out and repair. That is something you will want to try and avoid.
So do a few tests and a little reading to ensure you get a good idea of how the xrefing works. It will save you some potential grief at a later date.
If you get stuck, post your query in the swamp and you will get plenty of help.
Your in good hands here