through my startup routine... im having problems with my openddcl code thats supposed to load with my acaddoc and its causing my autocad to crash to desktop so loading it this way, while it really shouldnt be like this, makes it work and not crash me
Have you tried figuring out why OpenDCL is crashing your acad? Have you tried asking on their forums? I know that the AutoLoading only happens close to the time when the command-prompt becomes available, so perhaps just move your code into S::Startup. Or try to force load the "correct" OpenDCL ARX in your code and disregard the autoloader.
I think you might have better luck by trying to fix the issue rather than jumping through reactive hoops in order to side-step it. And even if you get your DWG opened reactor working, that would still not guarantee that the ODCL problem has somehow evaporated.