Eureka!!!

At last I've found where colour-books and items are stored (blessed obstination): they are stored within "ACAD_COLOR" dictionary at "(namedobjdict)",
but only - this is very important -
if it has been used in any entity drawn. So, if you change "_COLOR" to any item of any colour-book just at the beginning of a drawing, and you don't draw anything, there won't be any reference about that change.
IMHO is a foresight defect

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I hope this should be useful for everybody.
Thank to you all, anyway

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