Mark,
First off, nobody reading this thread would have known that you apologised to Bob 4 times, because, as you said, it was in private.
Secondly, I'm neither happy nor un-happy about any of this.
Furthermore, members of this forum, including myself, have gone out of their way to help you, with responses and suggestions to your questions, but you don't seem to want to listen to good advice.
I can't and won't speak for anybody else, but personally, I'm jack of you - you just insulted another respected member of the community. If you want to run off, that's fine (it just proves my point) - don't let the door hit in you the arse on the way out.