you're going to make me cry
Yep...
To make it worse, any attempt to write a third-party solution to this mess would be highly-susceptible to changes in the core product. We might be able to come up with something that helps us manage multi-phase projects - it won't really work, since each phase really needs to access the same model, and the model itself needs to support the multi-phasing - but we might be able to create something. However, if Autodesk actually starts fixing any of this stuff, whatever effort we put into a third-party solution would be wasted.
So this is basically one of those gambles. Is Autodesk so out-of-touch and incapable of real improvements in the product that we can count on them not fixing this for at least the next 3-5 years? Or will Autodesk actually start doing something?
It might be safe enough to say that we expect Autodesk to continue to be Autodesk, and C3D will see no fundamental fixes or improvements; instead, it will continue to get incremental improvements and additional features layered on top of a bad foundation, and all of its severe problems will remain in the product until C3D is completely replaced by its successor (as happened with Land Desktop). In fact, there is an extremely high probability of this.
So if we assume Autodesk will continue shipping a flawed product for its entire lifetime, then we start to see potential value in writing something. The big problem, though, is that the foundation is wrong. We really need a system where multiple projects can use the same model, and phasing information is incorporated into the model itself. If Autodesk starts moving in that direction, any third party solution that uses the current mess will immediately be obsolete, because it won't work all that well to start with. It will merely be "better than OOTB C3D 2009", but not the solution we really want.
In other words, this is a task that would take considerable development effort by a third-party, to get a solution that isn't really what we want, and one that is highly-vulnerable to changes in the core product that might render it completely worthless.
I'm not sure about others, but I know
I'm not in a hurry to tackle this one...